BY LAIR TORRENT

Speaking Your Truth in Relationships

More information on Lair’s Relationship Course

Starting a new therapy with your significant other might not be easy. That is why Lair Torrent tries to make this as simple as possible by offering access to the course from the comfort of your home. If you choose to sign start today, you will receive a new lesson every week for 7 weeks (total of 7 lessons). Each lesson is yours to keep and you’ll be able to refer back to it whenever you want. And if you miss a lesson or are too busy to get to it that day, each lesson will conveniently remain in your account so you won’t have to search for it when you’re ready to get back to it.

BY LAIR TORRENT

Speaking Your Truth in Relationships

More information on Lair’s Relationship Course

* You will be redirected to DailyOM website for Lair’s course.

Starting a new therapy with your significant other might not be easy. That is why Lair Torrent tries to make this as simple as possible by offering access to the course from the comfort of your home. If you choose to sign start today, you will receive a new lesson every week for 7 weeks (total of 7 lessons). Each lesson is yours to keep and you’ll be able to refer back to it whenever you want. And if you miss a lesson or are too busy to get to it that day, each lesson will conveniently remain in your account so you won’t have to search for it when you’re ready to get back to it.

HOW THE COURSE WORKS

Week One: Mindfulness

To bring you into the present moment and out of your knee-jerk reactions to one another. In week one, we will cultivate the ability to stop cyclical arguments while learning to relate to each other with kindness, acceptance and compassion.

A technique to help you find the part of self that is open to connection, empathy and understanding. This week we find out that good communication cannot happen through the shutdown protective parts of us. In order to make a heart-centered connection, you must train a sharp eye on the part of you that comes to play in your relationship.

A means of interrupting the negative stories we tell about our partners, which can become concretized beliefs. Narratives pool inside of us and become concretized belief systems. Left unchecked, these stories can infect how we see, consider and love our partners.

A practice that develops trust and intimacy. Truly choosing your partner happens in the little moments of life, when no one else is watching. This week, we find out how important it is to know what makes our partner’s feel loved.

Designed to eradicate the behavioral contracts that keep couples locked in turmoil and resentment. In our final guidepost, we learn the skill of taking personal responsibility for all that we do and say to our partners. This practice is the cornerstone to a truly mature relationship.

A week to recap all you’ve learned and put new skills into practice with homework.

Week Seven: Last Training

One more week of training and practice to solidify your new habits while eradicating old ones. The research suggests that with just 6 to 8 weeks of practice we can rewrite old patterns and change how we think and react.

When signing up for the Speaking Your Truth in Relationships course, You’ll receive 5 Weekly video lectures on each of The Five Guideposts outlining what each guidepost is about, why it is so important to your relationship, and how you can put it to use immediately.

Learn More About The Course

* You will be redirected to DailyOM website for Lair’s course.

Relationships shouldn’t be difficult because of communication issues, trouble in the bedroom, building or rebuilding trust, financial pressures–or any of the other problems that top the lists of reasons couples fail, seek counseling, or divorce. Those struggles are symptoms of a deeper issue that plagues almost every couple.

Learn More About The Course

* You will be redirected to DailyOM website for Lair’s course.

WITH THIS COURSE, YOU’LL LEARN

  • How the inner story you tell about your partner is the cure or the cancer to sex and a connected relationship.

  • How to love each other, more than you like being right.

  • How to create a “love hormone” feedback loop with oxytocin, fortifying the bonds between you.

  • The biggest reason no one knows how to communicate and how to actually do it well.

  • How to speak your truth, even when it’s uncomfortable.

  • How to build or rebuild trust through acts of choosing each other.

  • How to never lose or win another argument.

  • How to stop cyclical or recurring arguments.

  • What part of you shows up to protect you from intimacy and connection.

  • How to be a more mindful and present partner.

  • How to emotionally regulate and stop knee-jerk reactions.

  • How to mindfully choose your words and actions, even when triggered.

Why Learn With Lair Torrent?

Learn More About The Course

* You will be redirected to DailyOM website for Lair’s course.

Relationships can run into a block in their path, everyone experiences it. Not everyone chooses to do something about it. Lair Torrent understands and has many years of experience in relationship healing. Lair has devised a course that will help you understand your significant other better, learn to communicate better, understand each other and more. Lair makes it easy to get access to the course, if you choose to sign up today you’ll receive 5 Weekly video lectures on each of The Five Guideposts outlining what each guidepost is about

What Others Are Saying About This Course

We decided to use this course for our premarital counseling. Best choice we’ve made.

Sydney and John

We were doing ok, plugging along, not bad. Now we have a relationship that makes our friends jealous.

Sam and Tim

Moments that would have driven us apart are now bringing us closer together. I would never have thought that was possible but we are proof positive.

Ashley

He’s right, they don’t teach this stuff in high school but they should. Lair taught us how to be in an adult-mature relationship. I can’t say enough about his approach.

Tammy

Lair is inspiring. We learned the 5 Guideposts 5 years ago and we still to use them every day.

Tina and Rafael

We found out we weren’t so broken-we just needed to know how to connect and we did.

Mike

We would not be together if not for these practices.

Eric and Susan

We both had sought out legal counsel to discuss divorce. This was our last shot and I’m happy to say it worked.

Stephanie and Thomas

If your marriage is in trouble, Lair can help. Like he says, the practices are simple just not always easy, but if you work them, they work!

Tad and Simone

We are the couple we always wanted to be because of this course.

Peter and Reed